It is said that all of us wear masks… and, in fact, this is nothing but truth.
Just take a look over your shoulder, while inhaling the morning smog and the lovely tunes of traffic jams, and you’ll see it yourself. Somebody today, when getting ready for the working day, put on the mask of a “hard-working and perseverant clerk”, that young man with funny mustache wears the “kind and polite selling manager” mask, this man with a large T-shirt, a pair baggy jeans and sparkling eyes has put on the “insane and obsessive but very well-experienced taxi driver” mask and this beautiful, nice, young lady plays the role or a “loving and caring teacher”. The masks inside us decide who we are going to be today, tomorrow, the next minute.
However, when it comes the time when the Sun goes beyond the horizon line and the twilight take control over our hidden desires, the colors of the masks we use to wear take totally different color – a blend of insane sexuality, erotic fantasies, playful and exciting sensations, a little bit of lust, a drop of love elixir and, of course, the kinky taste of our deep hidden secrets.
Some people go clockwise, obeying the Law of Gravitation and hardly trying not to deviate from the route strictly dictated by the fate, whereas more and more crazy “sex inventors” carry on experimenting in their bedrooms and put new sex records, proving that ultimate sexual pleasure is not only available but also compulsory. Adult sex toys and accessories, bondage games, role playing, spanking and flogging, threesomes, swinger clubs, orgy parties, amateur adult videos, personal blogs and websites with personal pictures or/and their girlfriends/boyfriends, pregnant wives and hairy husbands and plenty of other weird and wild sex tricks that one could consider outrageous, while all the rest call them sweet deviations from routine sex and original escape from the monotone life. Mix a couple of abovementioned elements together and the result is going to be just phenomenal – an extreme sex life with adrenaline rushing from all possible whole of you wicked mind. A sex life your fantasies didn’t even dream about.
In all this erotic carnival, a very considerable part of the cake takes the bondage art and its satellites: sense deprivation, spanking and flogging, female domination, master and slave sex techniques, physical torture and moral humiliation, golden shower, etc. In order to advance in “bondage love” philosophy and get used to pain, which eventually is going to be replaced by unique by its kind pleasure, start your BDSM Curriculum Vitae gradually, step by step, with simple tricks and techniques, like: role playing with slight whipping and/or spanking. Then, your next logical step would be master and slave, involving sense deprivation and flogging, but who said there should be a logical chain??? Go ahead and do whatever your brain muscle tells you to do. Want to try all the possible adult toys and sex accessories available in the local sex shop? – No problem. Want to skip directly to moral humiliation, golden shower or pony tail butt plugs? – Then do it and don’t wait for the permission of somebody. How about strap-on dildos to try the female domination scenario? – Again, easy as a piece of cake. As offence is the best defense, practice is the best theory. And, as you all know that rules were made to be broken – feel free to do it straight away (but let the kids go to sleep first). You’ve got the whole world in your hands, so to say… so, make a real masterpiece out of you sex life, rather than a replica offered by life production line. Be original, set new sexual goal and try to achieve them all.
On top of that, as a whole range of sex experts claim, in 2-3 years couples start to get bored with their sex lives. Many of them start to look how to diversify their intimate relationships without having the slightest ideas that 99% of what they really need could be found in the local sex shop or on the web-shelves of online adult stores, no matter whether this is either a traditional vibrator, or a realistic dildo, or a classic anal sex toy, or something from the vast collection of bondage sex toys, starting with nipple clamps and leather outfit and up to spanking and flogging toys, blind folders, handcuffs and other wicked bondage accessories.
Becoming wiser in sex means becoming a better lover. Becoming a better lover means respecting and fulfilling your partner’s sex fantasies and desires, which leads to sexual perfection as a couple and which makes pleasure your lifetime companion. It’s never easy to start a new chapter of your sex life but there are moments that can decide on whose side the pleasure’s going to play.
